A tropical classic with a bitter twist that’ll make your taste buds dance! 💃🍍
Invented by Jeffrey Ong in the 1970s at The Aviary Bar in the Kuala Lumpur Hilton 🇲🇾🍸
Sweet, tart, and just a little mysterious — this cocktail proves paradise has layers 😎🌴
Who’s ready to take flight with this one? 🪶🍹
Two years ago, I was invited to a themed party that celebrated a specific day. I only knew the host, but I was excited to go and join the fun. And what a great time it was—amazing food, laughter, new friends, and an afternoon full of memories.
The following year, though, I wasn’t invited. And I’ll be honest—it stung a little. I felt left out. But then I reminded myself of something every good host learns eventually: when it’s your party, you get to invite who you want to.
Recently, I ran into the same host and told her how much I’d loved that party—and how disappointed I’d been not to see another invite the next year.
She smiled and said, “Funny thing—I didn’t have the party at all.”
When I asked why, she explained that one of her guests’ spouses complained afterward. It had been a women-only afternoon gathering, but he told her she had to include spouses next time. Rather than maintain the event she’d loved and way she’d always had it, she cancelled altogether.
Here’s the truth:
👉 It’s your party.
👉 You get to invite who you want to be with.
👉 And you never, ever have to apologize for it.
Hosting is about creating joy and connection—not meeting someone else’s expectations. When you host authentically, you attract the kind of guests who appreciate your effort, energy, and spirit.
So whether it’s:
✨ A ladies-only brunch
✨ A cozy couples’ dinner
✨ A friendsgiving with your chosen family
✨ Or a “just us” pizza night
…you have permission to make it yours.
As you plan your next gathering, take a minute to think about who fills your cup. That’s your guest list.
💌 Comment below and tell me: Who would make your dream dinner guest list? (It can be anyone—from your best friend to your favorite celebrity chef!) I might feature a few fun answers in next week’s newsletter.
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Because life’s too short to host someone else’s kind of party. Make it yours. 💕
Cheers,
🥂 Colleen
Just in time for Halloween, I had to share this one—because if you’re a vermouth lover, this cocktail is absolutely calling your name.
It’s dry and citrusy, with those piney gin notes and herbal depth that make it feel a little mysterious… and completely irresistible. This is one of those drinks that doesn’t shout for attention, but quietly impresses with every sip.
And let’s talk about presentation for a second. The skull ice cubes? Non-negotiable. Because when it comes to entertaining, the devil really is in the details—and Halloween is the perfect excuse to lean into that just a little.
This is an easy way to add personality to your bar cart or dinner party without overthinking it. A familiar cocktail, a seasonal twist, and a playful nod to the holiday.
Here’s to spooky sips, good vermouth, and cocktails that set the mood before the first sip!
Cheers,
Colleen 🥂💀
Here’s the truth: your guests aren’t coming over to inspect your baseboards.
All you really need before entertaining is a quick sweep to clear the clutter—not a full spring cleaning marathon. You can always put things back in their “real” place tomorrow. Dining together is about creating space for laughter, conversation, and connection.
After the last guest leaves, do not sit down. Trust me on this one.
Do a quick reset:
✔️ Pack leftovers in the fridge.
✔️ Load the dishwasher and hit “start.”
✔️ Wipe down counters.
You’ll wake up the next morning with nothing to do but sip your coffee, smile, and relive the fun of the night before. (Instead of wrestling with dried-on lasagna.)
👉 The next time you host, set a timer for 15 minutes and see how much clutter you can clear.
👉 Try the “do not sit down” rule after your party and let me know how it goes.
Comment below and share your best quick clean-up hack—I might feature it in a future newsletter!
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Because when it comes to entertaining, it’s not about perfection—it’s about creating memories with family and friends.
Cheers,
Colleen 🥂
In our fast-paced world filled with endless commitments, the chance to slow down, connect, and savor time with others is more valuable than ever. For me, the best way to do that isn’t out at a crowded restaurant—it’s right at home.
Several years ago, I met a dear friend for dinner at our favorite spot in Los Angeles, Versailles Cuban Food. We ordered our usual dishes, laughed until our sides hurt, and tried to stretch the night as long as possible. Unfortunately, the servers had other plans. First, they wiped down our table. Twice. Then came the vacuum cleaner. We did everything we could to hang on to that moment, but eventually, we had to leave.
That night, I realized something: I never again wanted someone else to dictate how my evening with friends would go.
And that’s when I knew—dining in would always be my best night out.
Here are just a few reasons why hosting at home beats going out:
Here’s my challenge for you this week:
👉 Use what you already own to set the table with intention. (Yes, even if it’s just your everyday dishes!)
👉 Focus on connection, not perfection.
Then, hit reply and tell me how it went! I’d love to feature some of your stories in an upcoming issue.
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Because the best memories don’t always happen “out there.” Sometimes, they’re waiting for us right at our own tables.
Cheers,
Colleen
How did my entertaining obsession start?
I think it began when I was a little girl visiting my grandmother in Syracuse. Whenever we arrived, her dining table was already set for dinner—sometimes days in advance, covered with a sheet to keep everything fresh.
Her tables were always beautiful: seasonally appropriate cloth napkins, china, crystal, and silver. They felt elegant, thoughtful, and special. From the very beginning, I was hooked.
After she passed away, my mother saved her recipe card box and a little notebook she kept. Inside was a treasure: a catalog of every dinner party she hosted or attended. The very first entry? August 27, 1936.
Each list included the date and location, guest list, centerpiece, and even the “prizes” she sent home with guests—small gifts like a compact for the ladies or a deck of cards for the gentlemen.
Reading through it, I realized entertaining wasn’t just about food or decor. It was about creating memories that lasted long after the last dish was washed.
For years I thought, “Someday I’ll host my own dinner party.”
That “someday” finally came in my tiny Los Angeles apartment in 1999. I invited seven friends, made appetizers, asalad, an entrée, and dessert, and everyone brought wine. We squeezed around my round kitchen table meant for four—but no one cared.
After dinner, we sat on the floor playing Catch Phrase until the wine was gone. The last guest left around 2 a.m., and I remember thinking: this is it—this is what I want to do for the rest of my life.
Over the years, I’ve hosted with my parents and now with my husband. Together, we’ve pulled off everything from intimate dinners to our biggest bash yet—a holiday party with 93 guests and a 17-foot Christmas tree.
And while I love those big celebrations, I’ve discovered my heart belongs to the smaller gatherings, where I can linger, laugh, and connect with every guest.
That’s exactly what I’ll be sharing with you going forward:
My goal? To help you feel confident, inspired, and excited to bring people together—whether it’s eight friends around a cramped table or a house full of holiday cheer.
I’m thrilled to take this journey with you!
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Until next time,
Colleen